If you have the chance to choose between keeping your virginity till marriage, please do it.
I am using the word ‘chance” because that decision was not given to many. For others, it was stolen from childhood.
But if you have the chance to decide for yourself, please keep your virginity till marriage.
Yes sex is very pleasurable, but it comes with allot of consequences especially if it not done with the right person and at the right time.
Allot of people have lost years of their lives over few minutes of pleasures.
Allot had to give up on their dreams and their future over few minutes of pleasures.
Allot had to live with the consequences of their actions and decisions for a lifetime over few minutes of sex.
For something that is a temporary pleasure with future consequences believe me, it is not worth it.
The emptiness that comes with giving your body to someone who does not deserve it.
The guilt and shame that comes with knowing that you have given a part of yourself to someone who does not even deserve a hello from you in the first place.
As I grow older, I realized that half of the problems I encountered would have been avoided if only I stayed away from premarital sex.
Half of the problem I encountered was putting myself in situations that almost cost me my sanity and peace by giving myself to the wrong person.
When you are advised to stay away from premarital sex, it is not because they are trying to hinder you from the pleasures that comes with it, but because the consequences that follows are way greater than the pleasures.
One of the reasons why you are currently stock in a relationship that is driving you crazy is because you have given part of your innocence away.
One of the reasons why you are currently going through one of the most crucial heartbreak as a teenager is because you gave up allot including your body for that relationship to work and despite everything, it still failed.
One of the reasons why you are emotionally and mentally damage even at a very young age is because you gave yourself to people who does not know the value of what you gave them.
One of the reasons why nothing seems to be working out for you is because you allowed a bad spirit inside you since sex is the coming together of two spirit in one body.
Half of the things you are going through could and should have been avoided if only you choose to stay away from premarital sex until you are ready to bear that lifetime consequences that comes with it.
You were told ‘its just sex”, no it not ‘just”. It is deeper than that.
By staying away from premarital sex, you are not only safeguarding your dreams and your future, but you are also giving yourself a chance to grow without being emotionally, mentally and even physically damage.
You are protecting yourself from the shame and trauma that comes with unplanned pregnancies.
You are protecting your body from contacting sexual transmitted diseases.
Above it all, you are saving yourself from the guilt that comes with knowing that you gave yourself to someone who is unworthy of you.
To someone who does not know the value of what you gave because he got it at a platter.
Do not allow your peers pressure you into doom.
I hope you learn to say no and stick to it regardless of the circumstances and who is involved.
Above it all, I hope you choose to learn from others who had to learn this in the hard way.
Because prevention they say is far better than cure. If you live long enough, you will get to understand this better but till then, just do the next right thing.
